Once upon a time I used to think there was a right way to adult, that you had to focus on building your future from the outset. That everything you did now was improving then. Turns out I just was just boxing myself into a rather unhappy existence. I'm not going to say I didn't have amazing experiences because I did have some really happy adventures. On the other hand you can't focus on the snippets of time when you were more than happy when in reality you were struggling the rest of the time.
